Canadian Association of Versatile Boerboels

Dog Breeding and the Four Agreements

with thanks to Don Miguel Ruiz for his enlightening Four Agreements.

(dog component by Jennifer Sider)

 

1. Be Impeccable With Your Word

Do not gossip. Say what you mean. Speak with clarity.  Words are powerful; use them neither against yourself nor against others. Do not disparage another kennel. Sell your own kennel; don't put down others. Do not pass on half-truths about specific dogs. Better to remain silent than to jeopardize the reputation of others. Encourage other enthusiasts to do their own homework.  Direct contact with the person/kennel in question is always better than third party information.

2. Don't Take Anything Personally

You will encounter a different viewpoint than your own.  You will encounter people who hate your dogs and people who love your dogs.  Either view is a reflection of that individual. If someone says your dog is too green, too big, too small, too quiet, too aggressive; don't take it personally; that is the perspective of the viewer. You may have arranged the mating; but you did not arrange the molecules. If the outcome suits your purposes; keep going. If it doesn't; make that choice for yourself.

3. Don't Make Assumptions

Ask, ask, ask. Never assume.  Find the courage to question and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. This includes contracts, emails, telephone calls. If you suspect someone misunderstands you; clarify your points. If your conversation seems to be going in the wrong direction for the information you need; bring it back on point. If you are contacting very busy people, be very clear about your questions.

4. Always Do Your Best

Your best, not your friend's best, your competition's best; but your best! You can only do well what you can handle. If your best is to produce dogs that are of a stunning green colour; then produce the best green colour dog you can. You do not need to compete with your competitor that is producing the best red dog. If it is not in your budget, your time or your energy; do not attempt to corner the market on both best green and best red dogs; you may find yourself just producing the best mud-coloured dogs.

 

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Last updated: November 25, 2009